Wednesday, October 14, 2009


My blogsville people,
Help me thank God for not allowing me to enter one chance oh!

This is not the literal, entering bus and being duped and all.
Let me explain!!!

I have got this policy of never going back to boyfriend, after break up and this is my saving grace.

Three months ago, I met him and He was begging me to come back to him, telling me how much he loves me and that this is for real and he would like to make me his wife.
My little sister was there and the big mouth did not waste time in telling mu mum when we got home.

I had told him, point blank then, that I had no more feelings for him and that nothing can make me come back to him.

We are friends and my mother knew him.
He used to come around to my house and would stay for hours.
My mother was even rooting for him.
So you can imagine my mother's reaction when my sister told her, about his proposal and my refusal.

The thought of considering him,never crossed my mind,
as I had the feeling that he want true and I would infact be settling.
I have not heard from him in a while and have never bothered to check his profile on facebook.

I ran into him on monday, I had actually got to their house
Normally when I vist, we usually enter the house, but this day he offered me a seat outside. I did not pay particular attention, as there was no light and I was not ready for seating down in some heat.
I did not notice his finger, until he told me that he was now married.
I mean he was 3weeks married.
Didn't you see my profile on facebook, he said. Like I have the time to start checking everyone's profile.

They had been going out for 8years.
Meaning, even when we were together, he was with her.
Even, when he was asking me to come back to him, She was in his life.
He even has the effrontery to tell me that, at least he asked me.
See me see maga.
All these time, I have spent with him, I never knew she existed, even after we broke up and became friends.
Dudes can be something else.

Am thanking God, for not letting me make the greatest mistake of my life.
I never slept with him, I was still a virgin, when I was him and
He just never felt like one I should give it to.
All we ever did was the kiss and smooch.

I am so grateful, it never went beyond that and
Particularly grateful, I did not give him a second chance.
That would have been worse!!!


doll said...

wow! men...

Anonymous said...

na wa oh.8years?i pity his wife oh.seriously.


Thank God, some men. God help us.

Rose said...

I'm glad you didn't get quite involved to the point where pulling out would have been near impossible.

I thank God for that with you...
..I also beleive he has someone better in store over the horizon.
That was shady of him to say the least..

That's some real One Chance! :-)

SHE said...

Wow! Na real one chance o! 8 years?!

How on earth would he have left her for you?

miz-cynic said...

tht one na real mr abracadabra.....onidan, mr magician, now u see, now u dont

Original Mgbeke said...

Tufiakwa! As in that one na serious deliverance.

Nice Anon said...

lol men never cease to amaze me.

The- Damsel said...

sounds like my situation.(because u didnt sleep with him, thank god) all these useless men always get whats comin to them!!

Myne Whitman said...

It's stories like this that make me doubt that real true men exist. Such a man may not even be faithful to his wife sef. pschewww.

Hope you're fine? Take care.

rayo said...

now this is definitely some oloshious fellow. mscheew. reminds me of sum1

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